The tailscale serve|funnel commands frequently call the LocalBackend's Status
but they never need the peers to be included. This PR changes the call to be
StatusWithoutPeers which should gain a noticeable speed improvement
Updates #8489
Signed-off-by: Marwan Sulaiman <marwan@tailscale.com>
1. Add metrics to funnel flow.
2. Stop blocking users from turning off funnels when no longer in
their node capabilities.
3. Rename LocalClient.IncrementMetric to IncrementCounter to better
callout its usage is only for counter clientmetrics.
Updates tailscale/corp#10577
Signed-off-by: Sonia Appasamy <sonia@tailscale.com>